Hmmm, I didn’t know that!!

Hmmm, I didn’t know that!!

NEVER expect to meet the love of your life on a first date. This way you will never be disappointed and sometimes very pleased.

Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails. This will save you a lot of time and energy and disappointments.

Choose the time and place. Women like to be led by a decisive man. So decide/suggest the café, time and date. If she can’t make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her, within reason. She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions. This is good. Make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend.

Be relaxed at the coffee date. Don’t mention past partners or that you haven’t been dating for a long time. Just have some fun and BE happy.